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Selasa, 01 Desember 2009

7 Reasons Why Things Don’t Get Done

Reasons Why Things Don’t Get Done
It’s been almost a month since I last wrote a post on Enhance Life. This is by far the longest period I have gone an post update! Truth be told, I had several unfinished drafts that needed a bit of tweaking before I could publish them. But for some reason, I just couldn’t focus or feel passionate about the topics I had previously written. This resulted in me having to write a post from scratch, which took more time than I imagined!

And that’s where the title of this post stems from. I’ve read a lot about “how to get things done” and improve productivity. But despite all that well meant advice, sometimes, you just don’t get things done! So today, I thought of exploring a couple of reasons, why we don’t see the results we want at the end of the day.

1. No clear goals

Without a specific sense of purpose, it’s impossible to effectively manage and organize your priorities. If you don’t have a clear idea of where you want to go, any road will take you there!

2. Lack of priorities

The best to do list ever written is useless if it hasn’t been prioritized. Most people naturally work on the easy or fun things first. They may cross off majority of their list, but miss the most important items.

3. No daily plan

Beginning your day without a plan of action is a formula for spending all day doing the wrong things. It invites anyone and everyone to interrupt your activities. You will passively allow unwelcome intrusions, because you’ll have no way to defend yourself.

4. Procrastination

It sometimes seems like a good idea to put things off for tomorrow. After all, tomorrow is another day. But it catches up with you!

5. Personal disorganization

No matter how organized your priorities are or how effective your daily plan is, you may be losing irretrievable time searching for things that are lost in the messes on your desk, in your files, closets and even your car!

6. Perfectionism

Are you unable to complete and release an… until its perfectly done?
Can you still see ways for something to be done better? Even if you can’t see anything, does it nag you that there must be something you overlooked?

7. Interruptions

Your day can be going according to schedule until a friend drops in or a game of warcraft commences. May of these occurrences can be eliminated, those that can’t, MUST be controlled.

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Minggu, 07 Juni 2009

How To Re-focus When You Lose Focus

how to focusLately, I have noticed a common theme amongst a few people I know. It seems we are all struggling with the same issue – the ability to stay focused on a single task for a
prolonged period of time.

Focus is what you direct your attention to, what you allow into awareness.

Focus is a blend of intention, discipline and skill. It can be achieved by anyone who is willing to put forth the necessary effort.

Focus is something that must be fought for (it doesn’t happen just because you want it to, either!) Most often, it depends on why we lose focus.

Reason 1: Activities Don’t Interest You

Sadly, all tasks we do(or rather have to do!) are not equally enjoyable. If you find your mind wandering frequently during disliked tasks, this is a focus barrier well worth breaking through.

How to re-focus:
13 Ideas To Make Boring Jobs Bearable And A Little More Interesting
Have Powerful Reasons
8 Stress-Busting, Spirit Lifting, Body-Boosting Ideas To Brighten Your Day With Music

Reason 2: Too Many Concurrent Tasks

Sometimes, we find ourselves working on a number of concurrent tasks at any given time.

How to re-focus:
Get More Done In Less Time
Learn To Prioritize & Say No Where Required

Reason 3: Interruptions & Distractions

Beeped and pinged, interrupted and inundated, overloaded and hurried: that’s usually part of our daily routine. We are constantly bombarded by things competing to attract our attention.

How to re-focus:
Regain Control When Distractions Are Eating Your Time
Regain The Hours Television Steals From You

Reason 4: Difficulty In Managing Work Life Balance

Other people will have wants and needs that don’t always coincide with your own. As we attempt to balance the various areas of life, we become more stressed out than ever before.

How to re-focus:
How To Achieve Life Balance Amidst Chaos
Are You Constantly At The Mercy Of Circumstances?
Minimize Stress, Maximize Success!

Reason 5: Emotionally Drained

It’s perfectly OK to get frustrated, angry, etc when circumstances don’t line up as you’d prefer.

How to re-focus:
Tired & True Ways Of Recovering From Setbacks
Getting Past Your Past
The 5 Emotions That Drag Us Down Or Shape Our Destiny
Give Yourself An Attitude Tune-Up

Reason 6: Too Tired

Sometimes we don’t have the energy we had before and often find it slow to get back.

How to re-focus:
7 Ways To Revive Your Tired Body And Stay Energized
9 Healthier Ways To Forget The Stresses Of Your Busy Day


We spend millions of seconds doing certain things, and yet it takes only one second to lose direction. So it does take practice to master the art of remaining focused. You can see results at the end of the day when you accomplish the things you most wanted to do, rather than feeling your day was empty because you were distracted by things you consider less important.

Senin, 02 Maret 2009

How To Regain Control When Distractions Are Eating Your Time

distractions, interruptionsI made my “To Do List” (for today) last night. The list was clear and prioritized. When I woke up this morning, I promised myself that I will “somehow” complete the “MUST DOs”. It’s almost dinner time… I can’t believe I have only finished one task.

How many times have you awoken in the morning, resolved to put in a full day of work, and then marveled at how little work actually got done? (If you're like me, the answer is "too many times!")

Looking back at my day, I realize that motivation or the “To Do” List itself was not the problem. As much as I hate to admit it, distractions/interruptions were the main contributory factor.

Avoidable distractions Vs “Allowable” distractions

We get distractions because we allow ourselves to be distracted. Surely, there is a clear distinction between distractions that are unavoidable and those we should allow. A sick child, a crisis situation at work etc. are distraction that we should allow. More often than not, it’s not these types of distraction that eat off time!

This post is a recap of the most common “avoidable” distractions we face in our day to day life.

1. Physical distractions

Feeling Hungry
This is the most common distraction for me! Often, when I am in the middle of a task I feel like “I need to have something to eat”! This results in poor concentration as well.
So I make it a point to grab something before I engage in a task. As a precautionary measure I keep some snacks on my desk. The same could be said about keeping yourself hydrated. Instead of going to the water cooler with your glass every hour, try filling up a water bottle at the start of the day.

Feeling Sleepy
It is hard to focus when you are sleepy or stressful due to lack of sleep. It is recommended that you sleep for 6-8 daily. However, occasionally there might be days where where sleep becomes a luxury. If so, you might find 7 Ways To Revive Your Tired Body And Stay Energized After A Sleep Deprived Night useful.

Not well
If you are sick, you should get some rest and seek necessary medical assistance.

2. Mental distractions

Your own mind distracting you!., another “popular” time drainer.

You remember something that you were “supposed” to do.
Write it down and ignore it for now.

Boring Task
When you’re doing something you enjoy, time goes by quickly and you get it done. When faced with a boring task, there are ways to make those tasks bearable and a little more interesting.

You are caught in an emotionally draining dilemma, fueled by worry and fear.
I have been in this situation many times and I can tell you that there is no “quick fix” for this one!
Getting through these types of distractions require some “action” on our part, to “tackle” the dilemma.

3. Environmental distractions

Family interruptions
If you are working on something from home, this is very likely to happen. For various reasons, a family member may approach you when you are engaged in some work. I generally feel bad to tell them “go away”, so I am a victim of these interruptions regularly.
I have found that telling them, “Please don’t disturb me until ..” works. (to a certain extent!) I also try to schedule my work around the “family itinerary”, so I am interrupted less. The other option is to leave the house (don’t know how practical it is though)!.

The price of staying “connected”
Telephone, email, AIM, twitter, facebook etc …This one is arguable. I know that some people manage to work around these, while others find this to be a major distraction. I fall into the later. I do my best to get “offline” when I want to concentrate fully. (Yes, as I write this post I am offline!)

“Workspace” distractions
Do you sit close to a window with a “nice” view of the “outside” world? How is the desk organized? Do you have sufficient space?
Surrounded too much noise? Consider listening to your iPod or any other music player. (Some people would find music distracting as well!)

Chances are, you're your own worst enemy when it comes to distraction. What steps do you normally take to minimize distractions and stay focused?

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Minggu, 04 Januari 2009

The Only Way To Stay True To New Year Goals

New year goalsWhen talking about new year goals some people are skeptical. I was too… up until a few years ago. The main reason I didn’t believe in setting new year goals is because I didn’t follow through. Sure, I would be excited about it in the month of January. February, a little less.. By March.. its slipping away.. April.. it’s a forgotten memory!

I was reluctant to set such goals because
1. I couldn’t stay committed
2. I would be disappointed (with a dose of guilt!)


On the other hand, setting new year goals
  • It inspires you to do something.
  • Helps you decide what you want to achieve.
  • Increase your energy levels.
  • Helps you remain in control of your life.
  • Gives you a reason and value for your existence.
  • Eliminates the irrelevant and unimportant.
As I grew older (and wiser!) I realized that new year goals are similar to every other goal we set in life. Needless to say that the time period is a year!

The problem… I was going with the flow and just setting new year goals for the "sake of doing so". Now, I am more “cautious” in setting goals. If I don’t have the desire and passion, to see it through it does not make it to my new year goals. At the end of the day.. the question is….

How Badly Do You Want it?
Bad enough to ask yourself EVERYDAY for the rest of year, “What are the most important things I can do today to take me nearer to my goal?”
Bad enough to be self motivated?
Do you want it bad enough, to MOVE from thinking to DOING?
Bad enough to make sacrifices? when everything else is so tempting?
Do you want it bad enough to get rid of procrastination?

If the answer is “No”, its time to re-visit the goals ;-0)

Do you believe in setting new year goals? How do you keep plan to keep yourself on track?

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